I merged your thread into this previously existing one because I feel it is best suited in this discussion as you can read we've discussed a few of the points you've brought up already.
Also you've hinted at a few harsh words and freedom of speech is adhered at this forum however I'd just like to suggest that you take the time to check out the Forum Rules, in particular the section on Negative Statements see here for more:
http://www.friendvista.com/forum ... &extra=page%3D1
Thank you for your input on cooperation.