Reply 2202#2202 penny3760's post
I'm so sorry about your tragic news. I too have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. It's a terrible tragedy but you see, at least, you're not alone. I wish I could help more but what I can offer is to answer any questions you might have and offer one small piece of advice.
Yale NH is a great hospital with one of the best cancer centres in the world and you can be assured your family will get excellent care. But, it sounds like what your son in law (to be) has is, an osteo-sarcoma, a very aggressive and difficult to detect cancer, which is usually only found in later stages, since it really has no outward symptoms and is usually only caught if you, by chance, injure the limb and an astute doctor picks it up. The hospital I used to work at, Massachusetts General, has a new type of treatment called, Proton Beam Therapy, which is like radiation therapy and has been very effective at treating sarcomas. This new treatment is only available at MGH. Since you are in New England anyway, this might be an option for you.