dognxtdoor

That first player that "pops up" is a web version of real player. You are correct that it is realplayer but that is only half true. What we would like you to do is to click on the real player logo in the lower right hand corner of that pop up player. (use the Left Mouse Button) A menu will appear...at this point you can choose to play in Real Player Mode or Theater Mode. This is your best option for being able to pause to allow it to buffer, and to be able to hit stop, and play and have it actually re-connect to the server. Feel free to send me a PM if you are still having problems.